[MD] Experience and change

[David M]

Hi MOQers

Seems to me there are different ways in which our experiences change.
One day you meet a new person. This is a new experience. You discover
new experiences. You meet this person many times and experience them
as a friend. Then one day you meet them again and you realise that are more
than a friend, that they are someone you love. What has changed to make
the new experience of love emerge? Has the person you are meeting changed?
No probably not. Seems to me that you have changed your self. What we
experience is determined by what we are and how we respond and how we
interact and transact (as DMB suggested) with the objects of our
experience. The enviroment and its objects/patterns change and we change
too, and in this process experience is changing and in turn changing the
qualities that determine what it is we find in experience to name as objects
or persons. It is all change, but one with enough patterns and durations
to see a process and evolution and not just a chaos.

Any thoughts?

Regards
David M