[MD] Sexual experience and death

[Marsha]

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "David M" <davidint at blueyonder.co.uk>
To: <moq_discuss at moqtalk.org>
Sent: Friday, July 04, 2008 6:12 PM
Subject: Re: [MD] Sexual experience and death


>> Hi David,
>>
>> Sexual experience seems to me to be primarily where some strong 
>> biological patterns meets DQ.   How we think about, describe and explain 
>> it is primarily social, but may be intellectual.  I imagine that's what 
>> you're requesting, some intellectual discussion/exploration.  But, your 
>> topic seems much too large.  For example, the biology would be very 
>> different at age 99, than at age 18, and that biology profoundly affects 
>> not only the sexual experience, but also how we think about it.  It's a 
>> moving target.
>>
>> Maybe you could narrow the topic.  Or not.
>>
>> Marsha
>>
>>
>
>
> Hi Marsha
>
> I was trying to get atthat aspect of sexual experience that goes
> beyond the biological because it is about desire and love off
> the unique person and individual and not just about whatever
> biological qualities they have. Where our desire to possess
> them is somehow about possession something about them
> that is no form of SQ at all, a desire of what is possible
> and not manifest or present, a desire for their potential
> to manifest DQ perhaps.
>
> David M
>


Hi David,

Since the rise of patriarchy, there hasn't been anything more controlled 
than woman's desire and her sexual experiences.  Love?  Possession? 
Anything I might say would be a cliché.   It's an experience in the now, 
never the same, and certainly beyond my ability to speak it.

Marsha