[MD] The Intellectual Level of Quality, according to Mark

[Magnus Berg]

Mary

> I spent the first 2 years attempting to achieve forgiveness - to the husband
> and to his Mother.  I have not been entirely successful, but almost.  What's
> interesting to me about this is that I am not having a problem forgiving him
> for injuring me, but for causing me to lose my farm.  My property.  Does
> anyone else find this interesting?  Territorial Social Level instincts
> coming to the fore?

Seems logical, but perhaps a tad too logical. Especially in combination with:

> Men are predators and women are prey animals.

and:

> I would love to strike out on my own into the unknown and have dynamic
> experiences every day, but I am a prey animal.  It would be suicide.

Keep in mind that I have no schooling in psychology whatsoever so I could be 
completely off base here, and I guess/hope you have talked about this with 
professionals during the healing time, but couldn't it be that you logically and 
intellectually focus on the loss of your home to keep yourself from thinking 
about your loss of dynamic freedom?

It sounds like an episode from a TV-series, and it probably is. So again, I 
could be dead wrong.

Big hugs from snowy Sweden!

	Magnus