[MF] MOQ: valuable or not?

[Steve Mack]

Yes that IS a little odd - MY email is 'smackc4', not Marshas'...All SEEMS to be coming through properly my end and nothing out of synch.

Maybe MF IS overloaded (or over worked) OR, perhaps Pheadrus is lending a hand here!!! hahaha
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Muzikhed at aol.com 
  To: moq_focus at moqtalk.org 
  Sent: Wednesday, February 22, 2006 11:14 PM
  Subject: Re: [MF] MOQ: valuable or not?


  This is odd = some of these words are mine, but they came to me from  
  smackc4, (Marsha), not from me...)  have we overloaded the MF ?

  There  was an earlier thread today, by Steve who was responding to   Marsha:

  "You're talking it seems, of the TYPICAL 'High & positive  quality'  concept 
  of 
  love, as in male/female [or same sex] 'extreme'  liking of the other  person 
  and ideally of each other.  What if  one was an abused [sexually,  physically 
  or 
  mentally] child and HATED  the actions of a parent/guardian, yet  throughout 
  one's life, is  still able to [honestly] state, that they 'loved'  their 
  abusing  
  parent, despite these actions?"

  Ted says : these were my words: 


  I  tend to lead toward Steve,  here.  If you imagine love to be a lot  like c
  aring, I think it's easy  to see that one can care for, and  love, something 
  that 
  is not positive.   The act of loving, and  caring, seem to be always positive 
  acts, almost  by definition.   

  Thus, it is quite possible to love (a verb) something you   'hate', in fact, 
  that is the advice of Ghandi, and also Jesus, if I have  it  right.    It may 
  be the trick is de-verbifying  'hate'.  It's a  bit harder to love something 
  you are actively  "hatin' on."  First let it  be.  Then love  it.
  I may have said more, but ??? I'll look to resend ??  It was a late  night!
  The MF is set to explode!
   
  Ted
   




  Ted
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