[MD] is-ness

[Heather Perella]

Marsha:
> To be honest, if I get upset with anyone it would be
> myself.  I worry 
> I don't make my point fully or coherently enough. 
> Thinking I sound 
> like a fool, unless I'm in the mood to be the fool,
> that can deflate 
> me.

SA:  I've mentioned doubt here on the forum before.  I've recently brought up a post that is a big challenge and we'll see if some here can face their fears or not.  

Marsha:
> Sometimes I want to tell all of you what a woman knows
> that you 
> do not because men are too dumb.  The next minute I'm
> upset because I 
> think I must sound like a woman.

SA:  You don't sound like a woman with "men are too dumb" comment.  You sound like a self-doubting person.  Am I mirroring you enough?  Your recent posts do come off as if your looking for somebody to help you calm down, if that's what you mean by "challenge".  Isn't the quiet challenge enough at times?  I mean, by challenge, are you saying you want somebody to talk to and debate with.  That's something the moq discuss website - cites - as what can stir a discussion - controversy, be controversial and like Ham, Bo, and Platt you might get people talking with you all the time, even if you don't even like the moq and discuss the moq (Ham) you'll have people talking to you on this forum all the time.  Ironic eh?


SA