[MD] "The Girl in the Cafe"

Sun Aug 24 11:50:11 PDT 2008

   I asked my wife what she thought of the movie:

    "It was a quiet movie.  A typical British movie.  They all have that same feeling to them.  It wasn't a bad movie.  They all have that same feeling."
     I asked her if she had any other comments about it.  She said, "no".
     I asked her what "feeling" she meant.  She said, "It is a quiet feeling.  Their movies are left unfinished it seems.  The characters are quiet and the story has simple themes.  The man and woman in the cafe and they keep drinking coffee or tea.  They sleep together for the first time, and that first kiss.  The simple events.  Not like American movies where they have to stop a speeding bus cause there is a nuclear bomb on it.  Their (the British) movies are more about relationships."

     I've seen her watch a lot of those British based movies, and I asked her, "I thought you like those kinds of movies (which above she does say 'It wasn't a bad movie.')."  She said, "Ah, I do like those kinds of movies, but this one I wasn't into that much."

SA


--- On Sun, 8/24/08, Heather Perella <spiritualadirondack at yahoo.com> wrote:

> From: Heather Perella <spiritualadirondack at yahoo.com>
> Subject: Re: [MD] "The Girl in the Cafe"
> To: moq_discuss at moqtalk.org
> Date: Sunday, August 24, 2008, 7:41 AM
> Marsha,
> 
>      My wife and I watched the movie last night.  It was
> good.  We laughed at times, sometimes due to the politicans
> antics as he tried to cultivate a relationship with the
> woman - he was hesitant to say the least and didn't know
> how to approach her at times.  It was thoughtful, especially
> when she tried to discuss with the G8 members as if they
> were simple, ordinary cafe people, but they were offended by
> her not speaking through the proper formal channels.  It was
> not only hilarious, but it shows how formalized systems
> bring the people who participate in these formalized systems
> away from the more cafe type atmosphere were you can sit
> anywhere, as the political man looked for a seat, didn't
> see one, so he asked to sit down with somebody else.  It is
> about the type of system one is participating in, but the
> contrast was apparent between her discussing the issue
> freely while everybody else was more a "yes man"
> (just following the leader).  What I didn't
>  like about the movie is how she left the man even though
> she and he seemingly fell in love.  I didn't get that
> part at all.  He even stood up to them in the hallway at the
> end, and spoke up as she did, he quit, and left to be with
> her, but she still turned him away.  Maybe she simply
> didn't want to be with him anymore, but her reason was,
> as she said to the guy, "Look at you and me, do you
> really think we could be together?"  The guy did answer
> and say, "No."  I don't know what she meant,
> was it simply because she wanted to be alone?  Don't
> know.  That wasn't her spoken reason.  And why did he
> say, "No."  They seemed to not only have the same
> interests, but a growing love for each other and
> "poof" - gone for no reason.  Did the love leave? 
> The story didn't say.
>      The movie does also show that people in politics, some
> unknown number of them, are really trying to do good, as the
> movie tried to point out, these eight people could decide
> the fate of millions for they had the power to do so.  Yet,
> I'm more of a grass-roots kind of person, so, it would
> be better in my opinion, if people could have the ability to
> change events on their own more.  Art at a grass-roots
> level.  Creating moral change on their own.
>       How about you?  Why was that a movie that you valued?
> 
> 
> SA  
> 
> 
> --- On Fri, 8/22/08, MarshaV <marshalz at charter.net>
> wrote:
> 
> > From: MarshaV <marshalz at charter.net>
> > Subject: Re: [MD] "The Girl in the Cafe"
> > To: moq_discuss at moqtalk.org
> > Date: Friday, August 22, 2008, 9:02 AM
> > At 01:50 PM 8/22/2008, you wrote:
> > >Marsha,
> > >
> > >       I rented this today ("The Girl in the
> > Cafe").  Didn't know 
> > > what to expect, didn't know if the place
> would
> > have it, but I found 
> > > it.  It definitely looks very interesting.  My
> wife
> > and I will be 
> > > watching it sometime from now til Sunday.  Maybe
> > tonight before the 
> > > big game, Argentina v. Nigeria.  The U.S. v.
> Brazil
> > (women's) was 
> > > yesterday, and an outstanding game, one of the
> best in
> > the 
> > > Olympics.  It was a very tough game.  Really
> > didn't know were the 
> > > U.S. was going with the game, they played defense
> > pretty much the 
> > > whole game until about the last 5 minutes of the
> 2nd
> > half and 
> > > overtime.  The few shots on goal (compared to
> Brazil)
> > the U.S. 
> > > took, but their placement was accurate, 1-0
> final. 
> > Argentina looks 
> > > awesome, very fun to watch.  Haven't seen any
> > Nigeria games, but 
> > > looking forward to watching them play.  My wife
> and I
> > are staying 
> > > up to watch the kick-off @ 12 midnight U.S.
> eastern
> > time.  I don't 
> > > watch sports on TV anymore, except soccer, and
> > that's
> > >  only the Olympics or World Cup matches.  I go to
> > middle school or 
> > > high school volleyball games, my wife coaches,
> and
> > those games are 
> > > actually fun to watch, I'm sure it has to do
> with
> > the games being 
> > > live and nonprofessional.
> > >
> > >
> > >til later,
> > >hot, windy, blue sky day,
> > >SA
> > >
> > 
> > 
> > Greetings SA,
> > 
> > I'm not hooked up to either network or cable
> > television, so I don't 
> > get to see any of the games.  I bet some of the
> competition
> > is exciting.
> > 
> > Today I spent the day with my grandson.  That is
> always an
> > enjoyable 
> > experience.  We kind of played soccer.
> > 
> > I hope you like the movie.  Let me know your honest
> > opinion.
> > 
> > Marsha
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > .
> > .
> > 
> > Shoot for the moon.  Even if you miss, you'll land
> > among the stars.........
> > .
> > . 
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